 MA-TILDA: Swinton at Dallas' Angelika Film Center on April 16, 2004. [Photo: Kusner.] Scottish beauty Tilda Swinton has less than 10 minutes to chitchat. Maybe it’s her maternal tenderness. Because Swinton's dreamy presence inside Dallas' Angelika lobby makes this writer forget that crushing deadlines are steadily ticking away. That’s no surprise. When it comes to acting, Swinton's a master at saying things without words. The superstar recently visited Dallas to promote “Young Adam,” a fine-art drama, costarring Ewan McGregor. In "Young Adam," Swinton plays Ella, a married, Glasgow river-barge owner who hires a sexy, boyish drifter (McGregor). The discovery of a floating, naked corpse complicates their adulterous romance. The tale's a sensual thriller that — because of a tame flash of full-frontal nudity — received an NC-17 rating. But Swinton's been at the forefront of daring, graphic and intellectual filmmaking ever since her debut, “Caravaggio” (1986). That kinky biopic began her collaboration with the late Derek Jarman, the visionary British filmmaker who fathered the New Queer Cinema movement. Swinton was Jarman’s leading lady for “The Garden” (1990), “Edward II” (1991), “Wittgenstein” (1993) and Jarman’s sawn song, “Blue” (1993). Also in ’93, Swinton portrayed the immortal, gender-switching nobleman in “Orlando.” And who could forget her American-film debut, as the devoted mom of a gay son in 2001’s nail-biter “The Deep End?” Swinton is tall: 5’11”. And in person, she’s so supernaturally beautiful, she’s like an alien-terrestrial who secretly inhabits Earth. “But I am,” she says while widening her emerald eyes. “I’ve always felt a close connection to David Bowie on those grounds.”  POWERFUL, POWDERED: Swinton gets a touch-up inside Dallas' Angelika on April 16, 2004. [Photo: Kusner.] As the mom of son-and-daughter twins, Swinton was stopped in her tracks by a Mother’s Day question — about parents accepting their children’s sexuality. “A child’s sexuality is none of anybody’s business — not even the mother’s,” she says firmly. “There are bank managers who can’t bear the idea that their sons are going to be bad at math. And there are amateur dramatic mothers who can’t stand the idea of the children not being performers. Of course, I joke that my children will end up being Nazis. Because one’s worst fear is that you won’t be able to take part in your child’s life. And that’s a selfish fear,” she continues. For moms challenged by their kids' sexuality, Swinton suggests they read the "On Children" chapter of Lebanese-American philosopher Kahlil Gibran’s “The Prophet.” “It talks about the parent being like an archer. You simply draw your arm back and you let your arrow go. The arrow will go further than you could ever travel. It’s not for you to follow the arrow. And you should never skew the arrow so that it will land close to the bow,” Swinton explains. “It’s such a privilege to have children. And on children go. In a way, they come from you. But you can’t go where they’re going."  LIVING ARROWS: Kahlil Gibran's "The Prophet" was published in 1923 (Knopf). "Young Adam” opens May 4, 2004, at Dallas' Angelika-Mockingbird Film Center. POST SCRIPT |
